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Your superpowers

November 20, 2023

You have superpowers πŸ¦Έβ€β™‚οΈ admired by others!

For you, these abilities look like a self-evident phenomenon; for others, it seems like you have a gift.

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What is a super power?

The superpower is your talent, your skill to do something, and what costs you almost nothing in energy and is aligned with your inner values.

That could be simple things (for someone 😊) like:

  • be on time;
  • fulfill agreements;
  • connect people.

The main trait of your superpowers is that you think everyone else has the same abilities, skills, and power to do it as you, and that's why you do not appreciate yourself doing it in a way that should be acknowledged.

That's fine β€” everyone has their powers and thinks that others have the same ones, and then it's surprising when someone fails to comply with the expectations of using them. Because you set the expectations for others to use their (and you project your own on them) superpowers, and when people fail β€” it disappoints you.

Frankly speaking β€” you think about what you could do easily, and the other person also does effortlessly. And this is a big misconception. We are different in our abilities and expressions and our superpowers.

Wanna know yours?

Sure, you could try to watch yourself and find something here. This is a working method, and at the same time, it is not the most efficient one β€” because, for us, it is hard to see ourselves from the aside. And here, your friends will step up! πŸ€—

Let's keep it simple: make a list of 5 friends you trust most, and ask them to name five things you do, in their opinion, easy and efficient.

Yes, you will be surprised because you probably never thought that way. Enjoy the new facets of yourself!

Requested feedback is helping to grow. The unrequested one is harming.

Enjoy the life! ❀️